Tuesday, January 19, 2010

More Niceness

Now that I am deeper into the book I see that this text has a lot to do with partnered women. Dr. Frankel talks about joint bank accounts, learning about investments made by your husband, child-rearing, etc. It's all fascinating information but does not directly apply to me.

Her philosophies on the female helping gene and her take on why women wait around for someone to handle their money for them are profound. I find myself saying "Yeah!" and "totally" after each line that I agree with, wholeheartedly. There's an anger there that resonates with me and my situation.

My decision to become a bakery owner and/or a teacher is conflicted. I almost don't want to be a teacher because this lady says I'm doing it for the wrong reasons. But I don't think I am. My credential would be in English so I could teach Journalism and English Lit. I've gotta find a way to put that bachelor's degree to good use! That sounds like money well spent. I don't see the point in paying for a degree that I might never use again.

The ability to write is important in everyday life and I believe that a credential in English will have far more benefits than a credential in, say, Social Science. If I'm going to play this game the way Frankel says, then I have to get the credential that will most benefit me and my ability to get rich.

Nice Girls Don't Get Rich: 75 Avoidable Mistakes Women Make with Money

2 comments:

  1. Interesting book. I'm glad that you are talking about it. It's true. Curtis and I just had a discussion recently that started because he just wanted to have money again and I wanted to "do right". Sigh.... I hate to think I am a cliche.

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  2. I'm having a major paradigm shift because of this book. So many things I used to do just because I had a couple extra bucks to spend on somebody else - no more.

    Financial security feels a million times better than buying gifts for people. It's nice to be able to sleep at night even if my bed has $20 sheets and there's a hole in my PJs, haha!

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